07/01/2009

Relationship Matters





  • CHEATING

Greed of wanting more than one lover sets you out to become only one thing a cheat.


sometimes your main dish in your love life menu ain't satisfying so you easily fall for other dish and temptation surrounds you making you sin.

you rush into a relationship and you find yourself falling for some one else but letting your current lover know that your inlove with some one else is the hardest thing to do especially when they're putting in work, something like the song (Chris brown) Goodbye.

your confused about your sexuality so you satisfy your self by travelling around from town to town just to fill the gap in your heart but the downfall of this your never satisfied with any one of your opposite gender so you keep moving around trying to find some one that will answer your inner question but accepting your different will never happen so you remain a cheat.

  • Heartaches

you find your self in a relationship where trust ain't about so your always having dough ts about your partner which causes you to have a heart ache. paranoia and suspicions are big part of you in this relationship.

jealousy of your partner having a friend thats amuzes him is an heart ache itself that makes you become obsessed of the other person that your partner finds amusing. your always looking at them, you make your self believe their absolute beauty, you envy everything they do or wear and try and become it. The stress of an obsession gives you an heart ache.

An horrible ending of your previous relationship keeps you living in memories so when your thought awaken and realise the reality you start to have an heart ache.

  • WAYS IN WHICH WE GET OVER RELATIONSHIP

i ain't going to talk about how relationships end but how we find our self getting over relationships

some go out searching for some one else to replace the previous partner enabling them to forget the last relationship.This usually works but most cases if the previous partner comes rolling back in their life, they find them self falling back into they're hearts very easily.

Hating their previous partner is common amongst females where they grow hatred to speed up the process of getting over their exes. A case of deceiving your self where you make your self believe you hate them but deep down you are soft about them.

  • Falling For A Good/Best Friend

Some times when two people become best of friends caring for each other could lead to loving each other as more than friends.

A friendship with a wonderful trust where both people can tell each other everything can be the foundation of how they start to see each other in a different way.

hugs,kisses in the cheek , sitting on each other laps making each other warm when cold can start off as being so innocent but can lead to emotions getting attached to each other,in other words making good friends fall for each other.

The fear of loosing a Friend because you have fallen for them makes you drift away from them. or even the awkwardness becomes a hidden problem which leads to things not being the same any more.

read more about this on previous posted blogs


3 comments:

Nike Forrest said...

i dnt kno whether to burst out crying or to smile.

Thrillz said...

I get you...

Bern said...

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